Even though it's been months since he got mad at me and we stopped being friends his birthday was yesterday those old wounds just reopened. I'm feeling that drowning vibe all over again my whole world just feels dark. Idk how to shake this feeling especially since I've been working on moving on and he's got a boyfriend who makes him happy they're happy together at least but now he just straight-up hates me.
Last updated on:2025-07-18T08:52:50+05:30
Comments (7)
Perhaps you will be friends some day... After you have healed.
Don't be friends. Even a friends only relationship requires maintenance and that leaves it open to be misled. It's hard. H A R D. Do what you need to do for YOU. don't worry about their happiness, that's not selfish..thats self care!! hang in there!!
That sounds so heavy. It’s hard when the past sneaks up on you like that. Be gentle with yourself you’re doing your best.
I get it those dates can hit like a truck. It’s okay to feel sad but don’t forget how much progress you’ve made
It’s tough when those old wounds reopen. Just remember healing isn’t linear. You’ve come so far even if it doesn’t feel like it right now
Seeing them happy can sting especially when things ended on bad terms. But your happiness matters too don’t lose sight of that
Birthdays have a way of stirring up old feelings. It’s okay to feel this way it just shows how much you cared.