So, there’s this guy I like. He’s been smiling at me for a while now, always looking at me, and whenever we say goodbye, he holds my hand a bit longer. He stares a lot, agrees with me even when I’m not right, and sometimes winks too.
Then, the other night, his friends were pushing him to ask some girl for her Instagram. While they were doing that, he looked at me, smiled, and winked. It was too much for me to watch, so I just walked away — didn’t even say goodbye.
Later, I told my friend that he can tell him I was in love with him, but not anymore (even though I still am). My friend told him, and my crush got mad at him for not telling him earlier. He said something like, “She’s always nice to me,” and that he didn’t want to ask that girl for her IG in front of me because he didn’t want to hurt me. He said, “If I had known, I wouldn’t have even asked for it.”
Anyway, I went home and started texting my best friend. I asked him if my crush liked that girl, and he said, “No, he even unfollowed and blocked her.” I was like, “Okay.” Then he told me my crush said that he doesn’t want me and him to be on bad terms, or become strangers, and that he doesn’t want me thinking he likes some other girl.
I asked, “Why?”
And my friend just said, “I don’t know.”
I didn’t reply. I just stared at the message… and then suddenly I got a follow request from my crush. I added him, and now he’s been opening all my snaps super fast — all night.So i don’t know if he likes me... maybe I’m just delusional. And honestly, I’m scared to fall for someone again
Last updated on:2025-07-18T10:48:02+05:30
Comments (5)
The fact that he blocked that girl and followed you says a lot. Maybe he’s just trying to figure out how to handle his feelings
It sounds like he’s trying to make sure you don’t misunderstand him. That’s not something someone does if they don’t care.
You’re not crazy he’s definitely showing signs he likes you. But it’s okay to take your time and protect your heart.
You’re not delusional he’s giving off major signals. But I get why you’re scared
it sounds like he’s into you but is just too nervous to fully show it. His actions definitely say something