How do I create hatred for her? Because if I'm was in love then maybe I will die
Last updated on:2025-07-18T10:53:22+05:30
How do I create hatred for her?
How do I create hatred for her? Because if I'm was in love then maybe I will die
Last updated on:2025-07-18T10:53:22+05:30
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I get how painful this feels but creating hatred might just make things harder for you.
what I can do.. she left me as if I'm nothing to her
I begged my ex to stay too and now I regret that I ever did that. I wish i could take it back.
You don’t need to hate her to move forward. It’s okay to feel hurt but try to focus on what makes you happy instead.
Hating her won’t make the pain go away it might even make it worse. Try to focus on healing and finding your own happiness.
I know it feels like love is consuming you but hating her won’t fix the pain.
hating is not recommended my bro. But yes at some point there are stages of grieving when losing a loved one, especially when they decide to abandon u and their promises.
i went through cycles of this grief, hatred was by far my best way of moving on and forgetting her. I did cry, sad, listening to break up advices etc. But at some point, the disrespect she did to abandon me did not deserve my sadness. Yes i am sad that reality hits and the memory, but some part of me could not handle such disrespect . i was so filled with hatred and revenge, when people wronged me i always take it personally no matter if it is from the one that i loved the most.
imagine while i was in a rs, genuinely loving her... but she was second guessing me the whole month to decide if was good or not. And when the time hits that there was a serious argument... she pushed her 100% effort into ending it and pushing me away.
what angers and pisses me off was that the fact that rather than her thinking on how to fix this situation, she instead sabotage it to make sure the situation ended sooner. I was filled with anger cuz wtf was that?? just random break up out of the blue??? i even beg her to stay which i evaluate now, it pisses me off that i did that.
ik we share our love and memories. But what's unacceptable is unacceptable... u dont abandon what u build just like that especially when WE met each others families. That angers me more, it pisses me off to the point I'll just accept it and let it be. ik at some point, the grass is always not greener on the other side, especially when u wronged someone.
For now i just accept the situation for what it is, memories still stings, but the person is spiritually dead to me. Dont come back to me if things dont go well. The stages of grief is already done and the most effective stage is hatred and acceptance.
bro I need talk to you is this possible?
@SnapBuzz68 it is possible, i am in this situation rn. But in the end of the stage of the grief which is
hatred ( towards the disrespect) and acceptance ( What's done is done, its time to find peace)
It’s tough when love feels this intense but hating her won’t help you heal. Try to redirect that energy into self-care instead
hate is kind of similar to love.both emotions consume you..how about ypu start feom acceptance. Acceptance of reality and how things are currently between u both.
please tell me how to forget her ... I feel very jealous when I'm thinking about her ... thinking that she will together with someone
Hey I know it feels overwhelming right now but you don’t need to create hatred to move on. Focus on yourself and healing it’ll get better
I can't ...
people change suddenly... can people leave parents after fight or misunderstanding if no then y they leave partner ...which they chooses themselves