Going through a breakup hearts but when you realise that nobody that loves you will ever cross your boundaries

his is the energy we all need. Protecting your peace and choosing yourself is the ultimate flex

this hit so hard. It’s crazy how much peace you find when you stop letting someone else control your mood.

Leaving that draining energy behind is the real win. You’re thriving now and it shows.

you said it all. Boundaries are everything anyone who crosses them doesn’t deserve you

Choosing yourself is the ultimate glow-up. Proud of you for putting yourself first

my ex woke up everyday being just miserable and it made the whole house miserable I told him I couldn't live like this anymore. my son deserves to have the best version of me and my ex was making me belive that all this negative energy was from me (gaslight) I've been in different psychiatric places and different therapies to try and figure out why i was so miserable but it turns out I wasn't any of those things its my ex he has issues he cant face or admitt to so he pawns it off on me like im the problem then when I break down about it he takes off and says I cheated in the relationship (2 weeks into the relationship) I NEVER did i had messages and pictures from the before time. im over here like okay so either I've spent the last 2 years wondering what's wrong with me and you've been telling me I need to get help or we cant be together all while you knew exactly what was wrong??? and wanted me to have a baby ??. or are you just not man enough to admitt you have been causing all these issues with us because you have some shit to work on thats completely outside of me and now your using some excuse thats never been an issue because you need a copout

its so emotionally draining, its like you have to personally regulate their mood.

that's not right