yesterday I woke up for the 8th day in a row with my boyfriend again acting all sad and awkward I told him that I couldn't live like this anymore everyday we wake up miserable and it makes me not want to live so he called my sister and told her I was having a mental breakdown and he was scared and he left to the lake (i know this because of the life360) he blocked my number and is now telling me that im a cheater piece of shit because 2 and a half years ago when we got together I had pictures/messages from someone else in my phone . im so lost because I've spend the last year on different depression medications and therapy because I thought all this negativity in the house was my fault. im so lost because this whole cheating thing has never been brought up in any disagreement and not to mention we were trying for a baby. ALL THIS IS OUT OF NOWHERE !! im so lost and so hurt that he would use this as an excuse to leave me and our family.
Last updated on:2025-07-23T08:47:15+05:30
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This sounds so heavy but please know it’s not your fault. You’ve been trying so hard you deserve someone who matches your energy
im trying so hard
UPDATE hes not in love with me anymore
It’s clear you’ve been putting in the work to heal he’s just projecting his own issues.
He’s bringing up old stuff out of nowhere to justify his actions that’s not fair to you.
exactly but im pretty sure thats not his problem but it hurts me because why tell me I need all this help and really its you with issues
None of this is your fault he’s deflecting and it’s not okay
if he were to say that he need patience to deal with his issues I would understand but to randomly use this shit against me is unreal
did I mention he doesnt work and I have to work at a overnight job just to make sure that the house bills are paid because he's only paid for HIS jeep . the rent is behind our phone bill is behind or electric everything is behind. but im a cheater peace of shit ??!?!
and I NEVER cheated from the moment we decided to be together we always said its just us and cheating is a deal breaker . which is weird because he's literally been the other man in 3 different relationships NOWINGLY