Today I looked on social media, probably the worst thing to do while trying to grieve. I look to my ex boyfriends sisters instagram. She’s the only one in his family I remain connected to, and I seen his posts of going to a concert, seen how good he’s doing, seen how his sister doesn’t tag me in stories anymore.. it’s been hard accepting this. It still hurts and I feel alone. I miss the days where things weren’t like this. my whole world was flipped upside down too fast. Ajusting hasn’t been easy.
Last updated on:2025-07-23T05:05:03+05:30
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Seeing stuff like that stings but it doesn’t define your worth. You’re doing amazing even if it doesn’t feel like it
It’s okay to miss the old days but don’t forget how strong you are for moving forward.
Social media is the worst for healing. You’re doing amazing just by trying to adjust
I know it hurts seeing all that. It’s okay to feel this way grieving takes time.
I feel this so hard. Social media really be the villain sometimes. You’re doing your best that’s enough.
his sis its true that adjusting isnt easy but like i said, u need to let go. Remove all contacts even his sister!! this is what holding u back. REMOVE ALL, cmon dont hesitate. It hurts to remove all contact, but trust me it will sure as hell help u heal. Last time i told u that u did good for acknowledging to your mistake, but this is just stupid to hold on to something that already move forward.
i give u two options.
1. u either fuck up again towards yourself by continue holding on.. remove all that ig an pictures all of it, it hurts but its how we continue to learn and grow.
2. u move forward, remove all traces of him and embrace the paon, go outside and acknowledge your mistakes, learn your mistakes and be patience. You remove all of traces of contacts which leads to levelling up your healing process. I understand the guilt is real, but like i told u last time, what's done is done. You either move forward or continue with that dumb guilt that makes you feel stupid over and over again till eventually u dont want a rs or marriage.
Heal yourself first. Forgive yourself and accept what is already done. Heal yourself, be better and prepare for what's ahead. Goodluck