how do I move on? I have a kid with him and I am young, my family isn’t very supportive of me. my friends live 1 hour from me. what are some good first steps to loving myself instead of being loved by someone else?
Last updated on:2025-07-23T15:51:03+05:30
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i started by doing one small thing just for me each day. music a walk crying in the shower—whatever. it adds up
same here. felt like i had no one and still had to be strong. it’s unfair and heavy. you're not broken. just tired.
this hit. i had a baby with someone who broke me too. i remember sitting in my room like... what now? you’re already doing something HUGE by asking this. that’s self love starting.
okay first u need to focus on your physical and mental health.
1. ensuring that u eat properly and manage your health, heartbreak break can have an impact to ur eating habits.
2. Do activities on what you enjoy doing before that stupid asshole. It can go by walking in the park, and even interacting with stranger. Yeah, like giving
a genuine smile a person made eye contact etc, it will make your day.
3. have a glow up, go to the gym, be fit. Let him know in the future that he fucks up.
4. Reconnect with old friends that you TRUST. connect and find someone that you trust.
5. watch something funny such as impractical jokers or anything.
6. Remove all pictures of him in your galley, physical photos, all of his traces because trust me, it will help u heal and move on at a balance pace.
7. Give all your love to your kid, you might lack the love from others but you can love you kid and prove to him that real love exist.
The world did not end when that idiot left you, the world will end when you give up on yourself and hold on to something that is already long gone. Always remember, when the grass is not greener on the other side, he will come back. DO not accept him! im a man and ik how man works. Have strength sis, u have my support.