There literally a fucking huge difference between discussing an end to a rs

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There literally a fucking huge difference between discussing an end to a rs, u either have a good talk or be a stupid person and just end it randomly thru a text. I cannot tolerate this type of person, we almost share 2 years of ups and downs just to end it after an argument on thrusday. I get it, the argument was like the lowest of the low for both of us, but what i dont get was the way people just end it through a text. We freaking met each others parents, it was so embarrassing for me to not get proper closure. Yk what will do good if someone wants to end it?? meet f2f discuss and tell ur partner that to your behaviour is no longer working etc??? that's it, than part ways eventho crying will happen. That is the type of clousre i want, not some random ass high school breakup stuff. That was so embarrassing to my self respect yk, it's like kicking a sand castle that I've fully invested on. Its a major slap in the face, and i realized it one week after the break up. ik both of us have a fair share of disagreements, but to end it like a high school romance, is just not it... especially when meeting each others families. No matter how correct you are, how smart and critical thinking you are, you'll end up be the bad person in this rs to end it that way and pushed me away. Ykwim??

Last updated on:2025-07-24T04:55:03+05:30

Comments (6)

GlassyEyes
GlassyEyes 7 mths ago

It’s the lack of respect for me. Two years and they couldn’t even face you? That’s embarrassing for them not you

Jalpie
Jalpie 7 mths ago

this is so relatable. Like how hard is it to have a mature convo? You deserved respect not this high school drama

Swathope
Swathope 7 mths ago

I’m so mad for you rn. Ending it over text after all that? Nah that’s some clown behavior. You’re better off without them

PancakeSmash
PancakeSmash 7 mths ago

it is, but we need to let go and forgive, because if we keep holding on. It will damaged us later ❤️

born2shine
born2shine 7 mths ago

this is so valid. Two years and they couldn’t even give you proper closure? That’s a whole red flag

Yiami
Yiami 7 mths ago

I feel this on a spiritual level. Like how do people not have the decency to end things properly?