Ive been doing good, went on a trip with my kids and been going no contact and journaling. But today my ex has been driving by my house and Her friend waved. I dont know why i took that as a sign she wanted to talk because She ended things really shitty, came to my house to drop off our girl and led me on saying she wanted to hook up. And then I seen her suv outside this guys place and i guess shes seeing someone now. But shes been driving around alone lately and i thought maybe we could talk, so I went to her house and knocked on the door no answer tried thr front door no answer. Went home tried to forget about it and then went back omg im so embarrassed and knocked on both her doors and her bedroom window and, just was saying I just want to talk that I know your seeing someone I dont want to get back together I just want closure and that I didnt like the way things ended and could we please talk, no answer so i left and went vent to my mom, I feel so low, its so cringe, so desperate, I feel like i needed to see that Im nothing to her now, and it was probably for the best she didnt answer the door, also I dont know what I was thking or what I expected would happen, I wish I didnt go her house.
Last updated on:2025-07-24T00:39:14+05:30
Comments (8)
yo i’ve been there. the craving for closure can make you forget everything else. it’s not cringe. it’s human. you cared. and that still matters.
its one thing to say your getting over someone, but you spent years with this person and yes me caring and wanting closure is human thank you everyone this app has helped me so much
i remember standing outside his place, hoping he'd just open the door. just once. i felt so small after. but that moment didn’t define me, and this won’t define you either.
thk you ❤️
ugh i’ve done this. that ache for just one honest convo can make you do stuff you swore you wouldn’t. you’re not crazy. you're hurting. and i promise you’re not alone in that.
yes for one honest convo, Thk you for this i need it
Enough talk, move on with me my brother. Stop wasting time on a person that waste out time, onwards with me
oh elusive detachment may it find us all