Day 3 Post Break Up: I don’t know what to do because so much reminds me of him and getting out of the house just seems like too much

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Day 3 Post Break Up: I don’t know what to do because so much reminds me of him and getting out of the house just seems like too much. So far I have gathered a lot of his stuff up and split into boxes of stuff to give back to him vs. stuff that reminds me of him, I’ve moved all the pictures of him/us into a hidden folder, and I rearranged my bedroom because that is where he broke my heart, the morning after driving 7 hours to spend the weekend with me. I still miss him so much and I am still hoping that he comes back to me.

Last updated on:2025-07-25T02:17:03+05:30

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Kiilavio21
Kiilavio21 7 mths ago

day 3 is brutal. everything still smells like them. feels like them. i used to whisper “please come back” into my pillow. every night. you’re not crazy. you’re grieving love.

smanth603
smanth603 7 mths ago

rearranging your room is brave as hell. i couldn't even touch my bedsheets for days. just laid there in the mess.

EasthamLover
EasthamLover 7 mths ago

yeah i got new bedding and everything because he began our break up conversation while we were in my bed still so i wanted to take back my safe space because he hurt me so deeply in my old space

KGrant
KGrant 7 mths ago

i felt this in my chest. that “still hoping he comes back” part… yeah. i remember folding up his hoodie like it was sacred or something. it’s wild how our hearts hold on even when they’re shattered.

hofndsiso
hofndsiso 7 mths ago

I'm really sorry for you I hope you two get back together soon