Today marks my 38th day of no contact

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Today marks my 38th day of no contact. When I started this journey last month, my only goal was to make it through the first two weeks, then three, and so on. Now, life is slowly getting better. I'm beginning to rediscover my spark, learning to love myself more, and embracing the beauty of being single.

Whenever the "what could have beens" cross my mind, I gently remind myself why I'm doing this. For my future self. To remember the disrespect and to remember that I deserve to be free and happy.

Last updated on:2025-07-26T02:07:02+05:30

Comments (4)

cryinnija
cryinnija 7 mths ago

i used to journal don’t forget the way they made you feel just so i wouldn’t slip. you’re not just healing you’re reclaiming. proud of you.

Kunchyeh
Kunchyeh 7 mths ago

this is so beautiful. i’m on day 17 and i needed this reminder. for my future self hit me HARD. thank you

sweetpatato
sweetpatato 7 mths ago

i felt this deep. i remember hitting day 30 and crying bc i didn’t think i’d even make it past week 1. it’s wild how quiet things get when the chaos stops. you’re doing something brave.

hofndsiso
hofndsiso 7 mths ago

I'm really proud of you and I think you will feel better if you did the breakup glow up like takimg care of your skin and makeup if you are a girl or hitting the gym or even working out at home if you are a man , you will look better and feel better