I miss him even though I saw him yesterday,idk why I'm so obsessed with him,I've been with guys who treated me so much better but he is the only one that I feel comfortable and while we were talking yesterday he told me that if he finds another girl and they start dating he will stop talking to me(bc we have agreed to see eachother only for doing stuff) and if he ever finds another girl and sees her seriously idk what I'll do I can't even imagine this happening because it's the worst scenario I don't think I'll ever get over him
Last updated on:2025-07-26T02:01:02+05:30
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the way he said that to you… like you’re a placeholder. i’ve had a guy say the same thing and i spiraled for weeks. it’s not obsession—it’s heartbreak waiting in slow motion.
i used to tell myself but i feel so safe with him too… even though deep down i was constantly anxious. it’s not comfort it’s the chaos we got used to.
this hurt to read. i’ve been there hooked on someone who made it so clear i was temporary. it’s like your brain knows better but your heart?? it just won’t listen
I know the feeling of being an option to someone you truly love. It is miserable pain
Damn, I can't imagine what you are going through. This is tuff. Please girl don't let you get used. If my ex did this I'd shoot her to the moon
It's too late bc I've been doing this with him since March and now I'm already too attached
@FrostBuzz52 if you ever need someone to talk to I'm here for you girl , do you have whatsapp ?
we're both going thru the same thing and it's devastating and hard
@Lunathimakhu yess I have