His birthday is in 2 weeks time! How to stay strong and to not let his birthday to pull you out?Is 20th day with no contact and I miss him so much
Last updated on:2025-07-27T13:49:02+05:30
His birthday is in 2 weeks time! How to stay strong and to not let his birthday to pull you out?
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this hurt to read. i feel it in my chest. you’re missing him and honoring no contact at the same time that’s strength, not weakness
i remember counting down to his birthday like it was still ours. it’s not. you’re doing something so hard. 20 days is huge. don’t let a date undo that.
birthdays are the WORST when you’re trying to stay strong. mine hit during week 3 of no contact too and it wrecked me. what helped was reminding myself he didn’t think of my heart when he left. why should i hold his day like it still belongs to me?
20 days is so so good.
have a plan for yourself for that day, a fun plan, a busy plan.