It's been two months since the breakup and one day since no contact. The longest I've gone was seven days, but I feel like nothing has changed, like I'm right at the moment she broke up with me. Still, everyone keeps saying it will get better with time. It's not; it's only getting worse.
Last updated on:2025-07-28T01:52:02+05:30
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i broke no contact over and over too. felt like i was failing. but honestly? the real shift didn’t start until i stopped checking the clock and just let myself feel like shit for a while. it sucked. but something finally cracked open after that.
yeah time heals is such a lie when every hour feels like a rerun of the breakup. i hated that part
i feel this in my bones. two months later and it still hits like day one?? that’s the part no one warns you about. i kept counting the days like healing was guaranteed. it wasn’t.
Recovering from a break up comes in phases. It's hard, and gets harder at time and then there will be lighter days in between. The darker days will get fewer, lighter days will grow until one day the dark days only happen occasionally. It's really hard.. The only thing to do in the beginning is be kind to yourself, give yourself time and distract yourself or stay busy.
It's okay! You can do it