i had a relationship of three years with this guy .. we both are good but not compatible.. our last fight was also on a really small thing after which we haven't talked to each other on an event and never chated on texts .. yeah we do share some jobs related adds but haven't talked just reacted . it has been almost a month since we last spoke . Today i am really missing him, my heart says just to text him and talk for few mints ... should i?
Last updated on:2025-07-29T02:17:02+05:30
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this hurt to read. the we’re good but not compatible kind of break is brutal. nothing big broke it just a hundred little things. and somehow that hurts more
i broke no contact after 5 weeks once just because i missed them. it felt good for 5 minutes. then the spiral hit. go slow. breathe first.
i’ve been in that exact limbo. no closure, just silence and shared links and aching. missing them doesn’t mean it’s right to reach out… but damn i know how loud the heart gets some days.
i’ve been in this exact spot where it’s not bad, it’s just… over. and that makes it even harder. i broke a whole month of no contact for a 2-minute chat, and honestly? i did not feel good or better. just miss him. its ok. you’re human.
ok so ..i told myself the same “just a few minutes.” but it never stays at that. be kind to urself. but don’t text him. not today.
i used to confuse “i miss him” with “we should talk.” they’re not the same. some silences are ok to hear. stay with the ache a bit more. it will pass.