the break up was messy, and he sent me signals of false hope, making me think that we’d get back together one day. so 2 weeks have gone by, but i’ve realised that i can’t spend months waiting, so i messaged him, asking for the closure i deserved, and i got it. he said it to me straight, “stop waiting” … i have finally come to terms with the fact that it is over, and he is not coming back. this is the paragraph i left him with: “i loved you with everything in me, i really would have done anything for you. i just hope that one day, when you look back at all the girls you dated in your life, you can say that i was one of the good ones.”
Last updated on:2025-07-29T02:34:02+05:30
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this hurt to read. i felt that kind of hope before the kind they keep feeding just enough to keep you stuck. you did the hardest thing.
the way you ended it… wow. i said almost the exact same thing when i walked away. it’s strength. it’s love. and it’s goodbye.
ugh. that line stop waiting. it’s brutal but weirdly freeing right? like the kind of truth that cracks something open inside you. you didn’t deserve the limbo. you deserved clarity. proud of you for asking for it.
I keep holding on that we could get back together one day too, but it’s so unlikely and he’s telling me to move on too, it’s definitely depressing. I don’t know how to live with it at the moment
you did the bravest thing and you stopped romanticizing the maybe. proud of you for choosing truth over just vague hope crumbing. it hurts now, but let me tell you it is your heart healing. ❤️
am proud of you baby girl 💪🏾💕