I did a 7 days No contact in July starting then she came up and we started communicating. She also travelled a big distance via flight and came to meet me for 6 days. The only thing I said to her that don't misbehave with or disrespect me else this will be our last meet and she promised. But like always on a small things she again misbehaved esp when she knows such words and tone can ruin the relationship and I told her multiple times not to do such behave. and she ended up doing same. i had to block her on whatsapp and insta so that she can't hurt me by her words but left open on calls and it's 2 days she don't even tried to cal or sms.. and she generally comes back as per her and my logic is if you love you can't leave ur guy for a day. Anyways.. I am confused my mind says not to talk to her any kore coz a woman who cudnt respect is not worth having but the time and memories are haunting me in this NC period. I am confused should I unblock her and wait for he to message (bcz come what may i wud not contact) or leave her blocked and let her learn a lesson that not everytime she cud use bad tone and misbehave.
Last updated on:2025-07-29T23:26:09+05:30
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I'm a girl and this happened to me in reverse , I did get upset and delet the chat everytime I misunderstood him and he had enough and told me to stop seeing each others and we did but somehow he text me twice and each time it was a " check in " because he knows how much I love him and cries and starve if he leaves me and I had the courage to stay still but the next day I was the one texting told him to change his username so I don't look at hus profile and he didn't change it , anyway I'm graduating this year and since he did graduate last year I had some questions about how can I do my cloths and he said out of sudden " we are communicating again , you don't let us move on , lets never contact again " and I was shock because he did check on me twice and each time chated with me for +5 hrs , so my advice is either keep her blocked so she can move on or unblock her and If you guys has a chance to get back together and you DO love her now NOT just the memorries between you two , then answer when she contact again and take a long discussion about which behavior you don't like about her , my ex did told me I was a rush person who never think before her action , but never told me if I did this again he will break up with me , so there's a ddiference , and its up to you
when i finally blocked my ex for real, i didn’t do it to teach her a lesson. i did it because i couldn’t survive another round of her hurting me and then acting like it never happened.
i feel this in my gut. the waiting. the silence. the haunting what ifs. even when you know they’re not good for you.
i’ve been in that loop. saying please don’t talk to me like that over and over and STILL getting disrespected. it chips away at you. it’s not about ego it’s about dignity.