we broke up 2 weeks ago..and were together for 6 months and 3 months we were friends..we talked about getting into relationship in our friendship stage and about morals and our seeing of relationships.We had like all the same traits and we connected...in the end she was avoidant and after one argument she closed herself off didnt want to talk and in the end it resulted in breakup...she wasnt bad person she was sweet and caring in her own way but with avoidant status and her traumas it was really hard for her to put words in action...im also a guy that really gives it all for his loved ones and i tried really hard but in the end we didnt make it.I know time will make us all stronger but man all the memories travelling and words we shared it just haunts me
Last updated on:2025-07-29T13:18:27+05:30
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i feel you. i used to replay all the good moments like a movie i couldn’t turn off. it’s not about forgetting it’s just learning how to carry it without breaking every time.
so true
this hurt to read. you gave your all. that doesn’t just vanish because it ended. the love was real. the memories were real.
thank you so much🫶
ugh. this hit so close. i was with someone avoidant too one fight and it was like i didn’t exist anymore. the silence after all the connection is brutal. like… did it even mean anything?
well mine told me she still loves me but cant be with me because of her brain well cus she is avoidant and cant process it with me she needs to be alone...but still i just don believe her that she still loves me but cant be with me through laughs and tears...