This is my day 27, and im feeling great, the thought is still there and still stings, but it no longer hurts. Mind if i share some detox on how i moved on quickly?? first. I seek comfort to trusted friends and let it all out (DO NOT SEEK COMFORT TO REBOUNDS OR NEW RS). SECOND. i did "activities" that i did with my ex but this time alone, not to be crazy but to adapt and familiarise the situation. You will need to familiarise being alone and doing you 'ex' activities!!! DO not escape it, because if u avoid it.... your next rs will remind everything about ur ex. Please embrace the pain, and move forward and get used to the actvities that u guys did. Third. Rather than hopelessly staying like a street dog and a useless piece of crap second option, i manipulate my mind into thinking that "this is not the love i want and need". love does not require u to be a second option or ur partner second guesssing you. Moreover, slapping yourself with reality can help the situation rather than being delulu and thinking that she's gonna come back. fourth, use that pain as a fuel to be your better version, do not stuck on a loop where u think that the rs will have another chance. i beg u, it wont have a 2nd chance, u only love with the memories, not the person.
Last updated on:2025-07-29T05:59:51+05:30
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the “love doesn’t make you a second option” part… oof. i used to beg for crumbs and call it love. never again. thank you for saying it out loud
Your welcome, im glad it helps you
Great progress! I know for some of getting out of bed is one giant task. But here you are 27 days of No contact.
hell yeah
this energy is so grounded and real. 27 days is no joke. proud of you for not falling into the rebound trap. that takes strength
thank you sister, i pray that u have strength too
damn. this hit hard in the realest way. that part about doing your activities alone?? i remember the first time i went to our fave ramen spot by myself cried into my noodles lol. but i needed it.
EXACTLY HAHAHAHA, planning to go to our regular cafe and ik it will slap me in the face