how do i manage to dont break 0 contact, her birthday is coming and idk what to do, should i say happy birthday or not?
Last updated on:2025-08-06T10:51:08+05:30
how do i manage to dont break 0 contact
how do i manage to dont break 0 contact, her birthday is coming and idk what to do, should i say happy birthday or not?
Last updated on:2025-08-06T10:51:08+05:30
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i broke no contact on his birthday. thought it would bring closure. it didn’t. it just reopened the wound. if i could go back, i’d stay quiet. protect your peace
thanks
you don’t owe her anything. not even a happy birthday. especially if it’s gonna crack you wide open again.
his hit. her birthday was the hardest for me too. i stared at my phone for hours. didn’t text. just cried.
staying silent felt like grieving her all over again but it’s what helped me start letting go.
didnt text at all?
DON'T DO IT! If they don't want you anymore, then don't make yourself available to them! Go live your best life without them!
thanks, I appreciate it, tough times
Don't wish them. Let them miss your presence. If they really valued and respected what they had, they would have probably had the best birthday with you. I REPEAT DON'T WISH.
thanks, that may be the best, dont wish to her
@WrenNote15 ya trust me don't wish. i have been through that. my man and I had arguement and he constantly kept telling we don't have future. and I decided to walk away this time but it was his birthday right after 11 or 12 days apart and I even bought gifts for him 2 months before his birthday (sounds weird but its truth). I handed over the gift to him through his classmate and he walked right infront of me I didn't even wished him on his face. later I was out of uni waiting to catch a bus and he told me to wait and he went to shop bought me some chocolates and I told him, what is it today that you're giving me chocolates and he asked so you really don't know what today is and I replied No. there's long story, couldn't write it all here but please keep yourself in safe place first
AGAIN A REMINDER: DON'T WISH THEM
@Nischu2025 I just read this, thanks
no contact. ....
or write on youtube:
"No contact and the power of time" by Coach Craig Kenneth
ill watch it, thanks
ill watch it, thanks
https://youtu.be/78dycNO8V0U?si=yMAzBNPim2XmeAVe
Thank you for sharing the Craig Kenneth video. I've been watching his videos all evening!
well in this video rhey say you should not say it.. just watch video:
https://youtu.be/78dycNO8V0U?si=yMAzBNPim2XmeAVe