It’s my day 1 of no contact. I left my country and came to and entirely different one for this person. now there are nobody around me to ask even if I have eaten. I feel soo bad for being blinded by love and not have thought through this enough. I feel that I am hurting my mom because she knows everything about this relationship. on the other hand, he told me that he did not care even if I die nor he cares about my mental health nor he even gives a fuck. When I try to show how much I am in, he says that I have started my drama. I feel like disappearing from this world. please the pain is soo bad
Last updated on:2025-07-30T07:22:59+05:30
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this cracked something in me. the have you eaten? silence is so real. i used to miss that one question more than anything. sending love. day 1 is hell, but it won’t always feel like this
Thank you for validating this. Feels that something in me is a bit a peace. Hope you eat and take care of yourself too. Thanks
i don’t care if you die???? that’s emotional abuse. you’re not being dramatic. you’re being hurt. and it’s NOT your fault.
Is that so? Everytime I ask him something like that he answers that he never ever cared for me anyways and will not shed one drop of tear if I leave this world.
i moved countries for him too. left everything i knew. and when it crumbled it felt like i had nothing and no one. that kind of pain doesn’t just sting it consumes. i’m so sorry you’re feeling this. i swear you’re not alone.
Wow I needed to read these comments. I almost moved to a different country for my guy & we freshly broke up, part of me keeps hoping to reunite and keep that plan while part of me is so grateful that if we were going to break up, it was now, before I left. I’ve had moments thinking maybe we wouldn’t have gotten this bad if I had just been able to move there sooner, but I can’t imagine having gone through with it, renting out my house, and then this happening and having to pick up the pieces in a foreign country. Maybe I was living in a dream world thinking it’d be better if I had just moved there.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’m in the middle of that so I can understand how hard it is. thank you for sharing. Gives me hope.
RUN AWAY FROM THIS MAN
i know you love him so dearly but sweetheart, for the shake of your good and for the shake of the mother who gave you birth and brought you in this world, silently leave him. Don't even let him doubt that you'll leave. give him all the love that you want to give, smile at him do anything that makes him happy and just move back to your own country
Thank you for your words. I have decided to leave the relationship. but moving back to my country seems impossible now because of other financial constraints. but I hope one I will soon move back to my country and live with my parents happily.
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No I left the country so as to be with this person.