guys for people that has been in long relationships how do you actually heal like actually do it like if you saw him in front of you won't even feel anything and you are forgiving everything what the actual thing that you do what is the process that you actually comprehend to do it to reach that level
Last updated on:2025-08-01T02:25:03+05:30
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it’s not one thing. it’s a bunch of boring things that feel pointless at first. walking. blocking. deleting old photos. telling friends the same story over and over. then one day it feels less sharp.
i stopped trying to forgive him first and started forgiving myself. for staying too long. for loving him so hard. that’s what slowly made it less painful to remember.
i didn’t. i just got tired. tired of checking if he watched my story tired of hoping he’d reach out. one day i just didn’t care anymore. it wasn’t healing it was burnout.