After 3 years he chose the dogs over me. its been 4 days since we broke. My entire life feels broken, I invested my savings, moved to a new area, set up my whole life thinking we'd be together forever. I supported him through thick and thin, I have never felt a love like it. all my other breakups have been difficult but there's been a glimmer of a better life. All I feel is pain, I cry all day. I have OCD and his dogs were difficult as I was obessesively cleaning. He told me it bothered him so I started therapy, the hardest thing I've ever done. 3 weeks into exposure therapy he tells me the dogs have to be in the bedroom or it's over. After 2 years of them sleeping downstairs. It was my safe space for my OCD. I told him I needed that one space in the house where my OCD could rest, he said he's choosing them over me and it's over. I feel so angry, I've given this man so much, even starting therapy, I feel so lost. Did he ever love me
Last updated on:2025-08-01T06:06:02+05:30
Comments (5)
he waited until you were deep in the hard part then moved the line. sounds like he wanted credit for being patient but never planned to meet you there.
I don’t know if be was in love with you , but I’m sure that he’s not the right man . the right man will be gentlel and notice the smallest details about u that’s the true way of love
i remember begging for just one safe space too. one spot where my brain could calm down. it’s not wrong that you needed that. you tried. way more than most would.
he knew what you were going through. he saw you try. he watched you break your own comfort just to meet him halfway. and still said the dogs mattered more. that’s not love. that’s cruelty.
thank you for the reply. I keep trying to tell myself that. its so difficult after everything I put into us, I loved him with all my soul