I want to share a story about my past relationship with my manipulative ex It was actually a long distance relationship After 5months of pester from him for me to accept him as my boyfriend then suddenly he went offline for 2good months that was when I r

I want to share a story about my past relationship with my manipulative ex
It was actually a long distance relationship

After 5months of pester from him for me to accept him as my boyfriend then suddenly he went offline for 2good months that was when I realized how much he meant to me,that was when I realized how much I loved him,not a day went by that I didn’t think of him🥺
Then one morning I woke to his message I was so happy
He later told me the problem of his unavailability
Few days later we were talking as usual then he brought back to topic I had to admit my love for him he was happy and the was when our relationship started(this was last year on the 16th of December)

It wasn’t up to two weeks he told me he wanted a breakup
Coz of the distance
That they are other guys out there better than him
I agreed even tho it hurts then 3days later I messaged him saying “why did you have to hurt me” he said he’s also hurting that he just ended it coz he didn’t want to hurt me and he wasn’t sure of my love for him
I convinced him that I genuinely loved him we later got back together
Some days later he started asking for intimate photos
I explained to him that I wasn’t comfortable with it he agreed not to ask for it again
Time went by he brought back the topic of the intimate photos i reminded him of his promise he was now like don’t I trust him?
He started pestering me that night,then I angrily threatened to breakup if he doesn’t stop and guess what he didn’t care he said it’s fine with him
Weeks went by not a single message did I get from him
I took it upon myself and messaged him he said he thought I broke up with him
We later settled and got back together
Later that week he brought back the intimate image I told him I will not send it he ghosted me for days almost a week
I still went back and messaged him coz I really loved this guy🥺
This same behavior of his repeated it’self like 3times I went back messaging him not until I seeked help from a friend of mine she adviced me that he’s not deserving of my love if he can’t respect I promised myself if he repeats the behavior I’ll keep my distance forever
And guess what he came back asking for the intimate photo then I refused he ghosted me for 2days the third day I finally broke up with him(this was this year may23th) he accepted without hesitation he just let me go
It felt like all we had was a lie🥺
It was really hard letting him go but I conquered I was able to control my emotions this time I’m sure he was expecting my message as usual but I didn’t go back all thanks to my friend🥺
She was there for me through those times I felt heartbroken.
He asking didn’t wish me a happy birthday which was on the 30th of june
Someone that I told about it oh😔
Even till now I still love him but not as deep as I used to

All for him to message me on the 17th of last month if I blocked him
I wish I had just snubbed that message buh I couldn’t 😔

Last month

Last updated on:2025-08-04T04:06:02+05:30