Day 12 Post Break Up: i’ve decided to make a pros and cons listed for him since we are going to talk on sunday

Day 12 Post Break Up: i’ve decided to make a pros and cons listed for him since we are going to talk on sunday. Pros: makes me laugh, have the same taste in music, first person who i have ever been in love with and felt truly loved by, have fun when we go out, have the same bucket list, he’s very motivated and determined, has goals, is proud of me for being strong enough for walking away from old friends, supportive, funny, a goof ball, understands me. Cons: stopped prioritizing me, was oblivious to a “girl best friend” flirting with him in front of my face for months (i asked him to cut it off and he said i shouldn’t be dramatic) - later apologized after his friends called him out on it, calls me overdramatic, sensitive, and “you sound crazy” when i get emotional about certain things that bother me, stopped checking in throughout the day and when he goes out, brushes important conversations off, likes to go out to get super drunk (i have no problem with this but the lack of check ins hurts - will go out from 9pm-3am with only texting me a few times, says he wants to be in the moment which is why he isn’t on his phone texting me (when we would hangout he would use his phone a lot, his mom makes comments about my appearance (only really stood up for me when his mom asked me if i’ve consider botox - answer is no because i’m 23), doesn’t like making plans ahead of time because “life happens” I still want him in my life and I miss him so much, but I also know we both have a lot of healing to do and we recognize that there are unhealed wounds on both sides. I just want to work on our relationship together because how can everything just be over.

Last updated on:2025-08-04T06:55:03+05:30