Me and my ex have been on and off for the past 5 months and 2 weeks ago he ended it again but he sounded really serious.He blocked me on everything but then 2 days later unblocked me and on random days said stupid things like he needed to poop or wtv.We had a talk this (2nd week) monday and it went pretty good.It was about our past issues and why we were still struggling and we agreed to work towards a relationship later on (he doesn't want this year but next year he is open to the idee).Currently he doesn't feel comfortable saying that he loves me or anything since we are slowly rebuilding our relationship starting with becoming friends again, which I get but my body aches to feel him close and my ears miss the sweet things he'd say.We did have a lot of serious issues with ourselves and our relationship that we need to work through first but I was hoping that when he said we could work towards a relationship it would be like at the end of this year or something before we leave for university next year, but he is standing on his decision.I don't know if it's worth holding on to.He also doesn't sound like he thinks we'll make good enough progress in 2 or 3 months from now to become that "more than friends" before the relationship when I brought something up
Last updated on:2025-08-04T10:06:02+05:30
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sounds like he gets to control the pace and you’re just waiting. not sure if that’s fair to you.
i know that ache. missing the closeness while trying to respect the distance. it’s hard when you want more but they’re not there yet
mine used to do that. block me, unblock me talk about dumb stuff like nothing happened. it messed with my head so bad. like if you’re done, be done. don’t keep cracking the door open.