Hey everyone, I need some advice. It's been no contact for almost 70 days but lately I can't get my mind off of him. He's still on my IG and Facebook and I can see when he sees my stories or not. It kinda makes me check to see whether he checks my stories. It's annoying. Do you think I should remove him to get my mind clean or would that make it worse (because then I'll blindly wonder about him) or obvious to him (also something I don't want). I've delete and reinstalled my apps too many times to know that doesn't last very long.
Last updated on:2025-08-04T06:51:02+05:30
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feels like you're using his views to guess how he feels. maybe it’s not about him anymore just the habit.
i used to stare at the viewer list like it meant something. it didn’t. hiding my stories helped a bit. no big moves just less noise.
i blocked mine outta rage once and felt worse. but checking if he watched was eating me alive. i hated how small it made me feel.
I’m still checking to see if he’s still looking at my stories and I know that’s making me hold on, and it’s been a week. I hope that by day 70 I don’t care anymore but I have a feeling still being friends is making it harder for you to really let him go and move on yourself. Sorry if that sounds mean. I don’t want to delete him either, I have a feeling he’ll delete me first though.
personally it really helped removing him from every social media he was in, so i'm not expecting any story, story views or notes.
I did it! And I already feel better. Such a release
@TurboFlick29 that's good, you got this!
honestly do whatever your hard wants because you only live once. by the way, I broke up too and I sent him a reel it said “ I hope you miss me like I am” and I don’t know if he sees that so good luck to you
Do whatever do you need to do if It makes you feel better