Today was a good day

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Today was a good day, take it one day at a time its true. I have bad days, today I dropped off my daughter at my ex's house I didnt see her but just going there triggered the shit out of me. Had a mini breakdown on the way home. Healing is definitely not linear your gonna have set backs. I also gotta work on giving up hope, because Im looking for her vehicle in town and I feel Im holding on to hope shes coming back but thats not healthy.

Last updated on:2025-08-06T10:16:40+05:30

Comments (8)

Naything
Naything 7 mths ago

you knows it’s over but ur body’s still catching up. the mind does weird stuff when it’s used to someone.

FlowState53
FlowState53 7 mths ago

its so weird, you definitely pay a toll falling in love

riminak
riminak 7 mths ago

i cried in my car outside his building once. didn’t even see him, just being near it messed me up. i get it. i’m sorry.

FlowState53
FlowState53 7 mths ago

yes its like you know that place will never mean the same thing again something along those lines or being there gives you comfort snd that comfory hurts.

overtemptur
overtemptur 7 mths ago

yeah i used to do that too. scan every damn car, convince myself maybe she'd text. it’s like my brain wouldn’t quit even when she already did.

FlowState53
FlowState53 7 mths ago

exactly you stayed attached, When i see her im like maybe she'll but shes in a new relationship so I know thats never gonna happen again

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 7 mths ago

yo this hit home. n we not even in the same state no more. my mind would come up with these situations MD scenarios and I place here at the event. saw how I was tryna keep her apart of my life when reality is I'm no longer apart of her life but I keep making her apart of mine. dangggg. so I feel this.

FlowState53
FlowState53 7 mths ago

yeah its tough to break that attachment, I still thk she'll come knock at my door sometimes then I remember and you have to almost grieve them like theyre dead