I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years mainly my fault

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I broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years mainly my fault. I just can't seem to forgive myself this was the girl I had loved for 3 years and I hurt her so much she left.

Last updated on:2025-08-06T12:05:03+05:30

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momosea
momosea 7 mths ago

i know that guilt. i kept replaying everything i said, like maybe one different sentence would’ve changed it.

Angrydresser
Angrydresser 7 mths ago

i did the same. never thought i’d be the one who messed it up. every day feels like payback.

Mikolaj00
Mikolaj00 7 mths ago

i feel very much the same. She did a lot of bad thing to me, but ai feel i was the one who was bad. I didnt appriciate her and value her impact on my life. I feel you man, if you want to talk i am open.

MiloFuzz93
MiloFuzz93 7 mths ago

ya I am not saying I didn't make mistakes you know no relationship is perfect we had our ups and downs but I felt like we could work it out but for her it was a different story

MiloFuzz93
MiloFuzz93 7 mths ago

it's the same for me to I have also suffered but I feel like I am the only one at fault

Mikolaj00
Mikolaj00 7 mths ago

@MiloFuzz93 hah It was the same with me, it was too much for her. Do you plan to get back? or it is final?

MiloFuzz93
MiloFuzz93 7 mths ago

@Mikolaj00 I wanna work things out but I think it's final on her end

MiloFuzz93
MiloFuzz93 7 mths ago

@MiloFuzz93 how long was your relationship??

Mikolaj00
Mikolaj00 7 mths ago

@MiloFuzz93 2,5 years, but it was intense, we split up after a year but after my many tries I succeeded to get back, and now she was more hurt and hesitant to get back. I give her space becsuse she was asking for it (no contact actually was her idea, she doesnt know about this rule) and my stupid mind thinks that subconsciously she giving me a chance. But to get back it will be difficult, but I will try anyway. I do not wat to live with a feeling I didn't try... so when you two split up?

MiloFuzz93
MiloFuzz93 7 mths ago

@Mikolaj00 like 2 months ago