today is my day2 of no contact. I've been delaying myself from healing because I keep welcoming him in. I don't mind being civil with him when we see each other but I need him to see that things are different now. he can't keep texting and calling as if what he did is okay. and I also need time to heal because his presence gives me false hope
Last updated on:2025-08-07T02:12:03+05:30
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you are trying to make space but he’s still treating it like before. he’s not seeing the shift.
so today I noticed that he deleted the message he sent me yesterday because I didn't open it.. what do you guys think that means
i get that. i used to reply just to be nice and then end up crying later. day 2 is huge. you’re doing something hard.
thank you so much🥺.. I'll hang in there
he knew what he did and still kept showing up like nothing happened. mine did that too. civil doesn’t mean welcome.
I didn't want to meet him , I changed my route to ♎ or anywhere,so that I cannot see him.Now Im able to pass by his house when going to the mall because his place is on the way I no longer take long way as before.When I see him, I greet him, not more than that, but it's only one or twice after weeks I don't bump into him frequently.Today it's my day 9 and I'm healing sheim
proud of you Queen
I used to do that too. I would welcome him every time he came back and asked for "forgiveness", but this time I told myself that am not going back.
Its been 60days, and though I miss him, even now, I decided to find peace, and move on.
are civil with him in public? in my case I can't avoid him in public because we work together. so basically the no contact works for me on social media platforms. and in public I've decided to communicate less
@SnowPulse47
I get to see him sometimes, and each time it happens, I mentally remove myself.
But, it's hard since his friend is my sister's boyfriend.
I know how it feels! You feel pain in all body and the heart is broken but you are trying to give it those small false hopes! Stay strong and stay away! Is painful but slowly is going away! Be proud of yourself
thank you, I'll definitely stay away