hey everyone, I wanted to share something positive and good today. it’s my day 9 of no contact. I cannot say that I’m over him and I don’t feel sad at all. But I’m really grateful for how far I have come. 9 days before I couldn’t get out of my bed or even out of my room. I bought one large Pizza and ate it piece by piece for 4 days. I was miserable. I thought I’d die and that there’s nothing to look forward to. But my friends were there, there were texting me from another country keeping me sane telling me that this would pass and I would feel better. I could not believe or feel like that but I trusted them and just held on. I’m grateful for this app and the people here who commented on my posts and replied and made me feel seen and cried with me. I’m really really grateful to God for giving me a little bit of hope and peace again. I hope I can live with this peace feeling from here on. For anybody going through the rough patch. Believe me, it gets better. I have a long long long way to go, still, I’m feeling little okay, peaceful and sane enough to cook a good meal for myself again. Thank you for making me feel not so lonely. Sending warmth and light 💝💗🪔✨
Last updated on:2025-08-07T01:40:46+05:30
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something shifts around the one week mark. not a big shift. just enough to stand up, maybe text back. glad they had friends texting. that helps.
Yeah the friends texting helped a lot really. Gave me something to look forward to. I might fall back to sadness and getting stuck but this is a little something. ⛅️
I'm on day 38. you're doing great!!! as someone with a few more days of no content than you, I want to say it gets better! the pain might stay but you get stronger to be able to cope with it
thank you for the hope you give. Believing and looking forward to better days
thank you for the hope you give. Believing and looking forward to better days
reading this reminded me of my own pizza phase. mine was garlic bread and crying on the floor. i’m glad you’re eating and cooking again. that’s big.
Thank you! acknowledging that this is big feels really good and happy ❤️
I to am on day 9 and I know longer feel sad about the relationship ending. I knew deep down that I was not truly happy with him and for me I had checked out emotionally months before but still did not leave until the last straw and then I was done. well and truly and yes it helps to chat with people that are going through the same thing xx stay strong everyone xxx
I felt the same as you did. Understood that he was controlling me but still wanted to stay if he might change one day. Glad we are out of it now!
i remember day 9. i hated that i was still thinking about him. like how does someone sleep fine after wrecking you. i was mad at myself for still missing him.
Yes I feel the same too. But I’m convincing myself to forgive him and forgive myself in my heart so I can heal and move on.
I too am so grateful for this app. It really has been a life saver. The people in this community are so supportive.
True. At first, it did not seem to be that great but as days went on the people here are the best. They feel with us, encourage us and give us hope to live another day. Grateful with all my heart for those here ♥️