I was in a friend group of five people, one of them being my best friend and another my boyfriend . . . recently I had a disagreement with my friend and cuz he's best friends with my boyfriend my boyfriend has stopped talking to me whattt. I got kicked out of the gc too. but I didn't do anything wrong in my head. I should really be taking this time to reflect on myself so I don't do anything worse with any of my future friends, but no matter which angle I look at this situation from, I don't think I did anything wrong. I was honest abt my opinions cuz my bff told me to be, that I could trust him. but when I WAS honest, we got into a disagreement. which is fine, had he not overreacted and led us into this awkward situation . . . it was only a disagreement. Id told him that the fourth person in our friend group was bothering me a bit, and he responded to me so bitterly. I even gave proof !!! but it was ME who got kicked out of the group chat and for whattt, expressing a concern??? but I was okay even then. but now my guy is refusing to talk to me. he's been commenting and hanging out with my (old) best friend only . . . I don't like being outcasted, but at the same time, I don't want to leave my boyfriend so pettily. what do I do??? I tried to bring this up to him but he didn't respond very considerately and got disappointed at me for thinking this way. how do I approach him???
Last updated on:2025-08-11T06:16:02+05:30
Comments (5)
he decided the group’s comfort mattered more than yours. that changes how you see someone.
i remember when my bf sided with his friend over me. it felt so isolating, like i was just cut out without a word.
happened to me in college. one stupid argument and suddenly i’m the villain. everyone acting like my feelings were some big offense.
no you didn’t deserve to be iced out like that. maybe step back a little and see how he shows up without you chasing.
sounds like he’s taking sides without hearing you out. if he’s shutting you down when you try to talk, that’s not done.