I feel like I’ve woken up from the spell. I can now see him (the Ex) as a very difficult and not nice person to be around. He claims to care about me but makes me feel as though I am Dumb and don’t have a brain cell. I feel like I have taken back some control of aspects of my life and have a plan. But the atmosphere at home isn’t that great and I feel like I’m now living with a complete stranger. It’s my sons birthday tomorrow and I’m dreading having to play happy families.
Last updated on:2025-08-11T06:32:02+05:30
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the more control you’ve taken back, the more obvious his attitude feels. the birthday’s just another day to get through.
i remember that quiet dread before a family thing, trying to keep it together for the kids. it’s exhausting in a way no one sees.
mine used to say he cared too, then turn around and talk to me like i was clueless. it’s like they enjoy making you feel small.