I wasn't paying attention to the date the 90th day of no contact would be. I definitely didn't think it would be today, MY BIRTHDAY. There has been absolutely no contact for 90 days and I anticipate not hearing from him today. 90 days ago, he told me he was actively dating. No surprise; he was in a relationship when we started dating and I didn't find out I had unwittingly been made a 3rd party until after the fact. He's a narcissist that can't be alone and needs a constant source of supply. I have been detaching and tomorrow, day 91, I'm recommitting to remaining in no contact. Best Birthday gift to myself EVER. 🥳
Last updated on:2025-08-12T09:36:00+05:30
Comments (12)
today’s more about her than him. 90 days is a long time to keep the line quiet.
90 days not long enough. He doesn't deserve me, he never did.
that first birthday without her is strange. i remember making plans just to keep my phone out of sight.
I was too busy enjoying my day to look at my phone.
my ex tried to call me on my birthday like nothing happened. i let it ring. felt weird but i didn’t regret it.
He did not call yesterday. Why would he? He has a new supply.
happy birthday! may this new year bring you new love and joy! you deserve it.
Thank you! Hopefully love finds me this year.
happy birthday 🎂.....I'm proud of you
thanx!! 🫶🏾
Happy birthday! I'm so so proud of you for making it to 90 days of no contact! It's inspiring ❤
Thank you. Here's to 90 days until forever.