He filtred since day one. for over 7 months. we are both married to other people and unhappy (at least that's what he said) I opened myself for the first time after 13 years of no intimate relationship. He used to follow me on Instagram on my public business account where he liked my posts and told me how pretty I was. I'm 48 he's 42. About 20 days ago I went to the public office where he works and where we met because he blocked me cause he thought I was pushing him away and then unblocked after 3 days. So I went there to "talk'... I was so stupid to tell him I was feeling something special, he immediately started kissing me and things happened even though we were on a public office. it was crazy, the context, the feeling, everything.. I wasn't looking for that and I didn't expected it. but I was flattered to feel wanted. the day after I texted him and he started to tell stupid things as - I need time , we don't know each other well, I don't like texting , it's difficult.. obviously I wished that it was not s one day stand! the next day I went to his office he was cold and treat me like a client but when I was leaving he asked me to stay and kissed me and wanted to touch me again . I told that I was in a rush and left. In the afternoon I text him that I wished I would have more time for kissing him again.. just that. the next morning he unfollowed and blocked me for Instagram.. disappeared.. he also blocked me from my personal IG account which he didn't even knew that existed .. I feel like shit. he destroyed my self-esteem. I've been crying since then. 18 days since then .. I could pass to the office and ask for an explanation but I will not. why did he did that? was he afraid of my feelings? or he only wanted sex? I'm extremely sad and feel so stupid. it hurts so much. I can't tell anybody.. I can felt that he was into me .. maybe he is afraid of the consequences.. please tell me what you think 💬
Last updated on:2025-08-12T12:20:34+05:30
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He probably was expecting more from your part like heading to sex but no commitment from his side and then he changed his mind 🤔
Certainly he didn't wanted to commit and when he saw that I was not playing he didn't knew how to act..
he pulled you in hard then shut it down fast. that whiplash can make the hurt sharper.
Yes. I can't understand why did he shut it down? consequences, feelings for me or lack of interest?.
Yes my head is exploding. asking if I did anything wrong or if he blocked me because he has feelings and knows the relationship is forbidden. anyway. 18 days blocked is an answer. He really wants me out of his life. he played with me 😔
i remember that shock when someone turns cold so fast. it’s not your fault for feeling wanted.
Why is he doing this to me? I felt there was a real connection.. I'm aware the relation is 'forbidden' but we are adults, he can just tell me the truth, instead he blocked me like a kid. I'm so anxious about it 😔
yeah i fell for someone who made it feel electric for a second then acted like i never existed. it messes with your head more than you expect.
I'm really anxious now.. he started everything and now I'm blocked and ghosted. What did he wanted from me?