Mine can't be called a relation..it was something although.. it was just beginning, there was connection. he seemed to be interested but after one time sex he blocked me and disappeared . 18 days now after 7 months of filtring.. what does it means? I feel so used ... my head is exploding. Why he wasn't able to speak as an adult? Is he afraid to face that he has feelings too?
Last updated on:2025-08-13T11:58:28+05:30
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he was fine with flirting until it became real, then ran. that kind of disappearing says more about him than about you.
and what does it says about him ? that he doesn't want commitment. that he wasn't really interested? that I was just a distraction and that he's not coming back right ?.
that happened to me once and it left me spinning for weeks. it’s not about you being enough. it’s about him not knowing how to show up.
I know Im enough and I'm sure he liked me. he's just a codard that doesn't know to react with a serious woman.
i went through that too. all that talking, then once he got what he wanted it was silence. i hated how small it made me feel.
More than talking or messaging it was liking every story on my Instagram and filtring with me at his office. but once I opened he just ran away immediately.. I feel like trash and keeps me asking why? I can't take it out of my mind
thank you so much for your words.. I'm really hurt. today I've got a new tattoo 'never trust again'. I thought I deserved a honest goodbye. that's all...not a coward block on Instagram at 48 years
sometimes people just want a physical connection and they do not say it clearly. it can be because they are afraid to commit, they do not want emotional responsibility, they are not ready for something serious, or they want to avoid feelings so they do not get hurt themselves. it can also be because they do not know how to manage their own emotions and choose to cut everything instead of facing an honest talk.
what he did does not mean you were just an object or that your value depends on his interest. what happened was real for you and it is normal that it hurts. he chose to disappear because he could not or did not want to handle it like an adult, and that shows his own limits, not yours. you are still a valuable person, and what you lived does not erase who you are or what you deserve.