my story is not a love story. we are both married and Im really unhappy in my marriage. we haven't had sex for over 13 years.. so I met this married man (who told me his marriage was broken for more than 1 year ) and he made me feel really special..he filtred for 7 months on Instagram (just likes and hey pretty things nothing else) and at his office where I used to go for personal work. I really felt special even though I knew it was not correct...but I felt alive š ...one month ago he blocked me and unblocked me after 3 days he wrote me and told me to pass by the office to talk. I did. I wasn't expecting anything ....but the kissed me and we made out. (at 1 pm in his office ). I'm not proud of this. but I felt a true connection.. it was not only sex, he was tender and I thought that there was going to become something more.. the next day he was so cold on Instagram DM. he told me not to text, that he needed time??? ( he did everything !!!) that it was complicated.. he made me felt so used and stupid (I'm 48 years old) I saw him the last time 18 days ago. I went to the office to do my things..he kissed me again and wanted more.. but I went away cause I was having my period. that afternoon I send him a message telling him something sweet.. that's all... I was blocked and unfollowed. Im aware this was not a good idea. even though my marriage doesn't works and it was just one time it's cheating .. I wasn't in love the feeling is of betrayal ..I opened up to somebody after 13 years and he slammed the door on my face. he really wants me out of his life or it's afraid of catching feelings? I was risking as much as him .... we are adults why blocking ?
Last updated on:2025-08-13T12:01:29+05:30
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you trusted him with the first real closeness you had in years. he gave you mixed signals then made you vanish from his life.
yeah ..that is exactly what happens. and that is why it hurts badly. I trust him. he blocked me after having what he wanted...why? š
you let someone in after so long and he shut it down fast. that sting stays for a while, Iām sorry.
That's right . it's not just about cutting with me but after 13 years, I trusted for the first time and now I feel that I will never trust again. the pain is deep even though I wasn't in love and I barely now him . I would like to know what did he wanted from me? I can't believe just 5 minutes of sex. I feel sick. I still want to believe he was feeling something too and he ran away to avoid future troubles as we are not single.. this is really complicated but I miss him or at least the feeling of being special to somebody š„ŗ
so you think he will unblock when he feels my absence or wants to feel like that again with me? it's 20 days now... I don't really know at this point what I want from him. I have to let go. this is not correct and he's really immature
yeah he wanted the attention till it got real. then he ran. blocking is just the easy way out for people like that.
7 months of filtring and once he got what he wanted (3 minutes) that's all ? I feel sick ! I can't believe he just played.. it breaks my heart.
maybe he was using you to feel validated and desired in the moment but then shame kicks in and he can't face what he's done... until he needs a boost again.
so he will unblock when he misses the boost ?