I'm feeling really anxious now ( I have anxiety disorder) this is not working for me

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I'm feeling really anxious now ( I have anxiety disorder) this is not working for me. we were not even a couple.. we were just filtring and then it happened (he just kissed me and we made out) it lasted an hour but it felt so real. he asked me if I was falling into him.. next day he told me he needed time (we are both married, I know this is trouble.im so embarrassed) after 2 days he blocked me on Instagram. I thought he got scared about my feelings.. that's all tomorrow 20 days. I can't stand this. I need to look him in the eyes and ask why? I can do that tomorrow if I want. he works at the post office I go there ask and close with dignity.. I'm going crazy. please tell me what to do? 😭.. I'm feeling desperate. give me an advice

Last updated on:2025-08-14T03:00:04+05:30

Comments (6)

riskenalize
riskenalize 7 mths ago

twenty days in and the silence is eating at them more than the kiss ever did

shacin
shacin 7 mths ago

sounds like you’re carrying all of it alone. i’ve had that mix of shame and wanting closure. it’s so hard to hold

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 7 mths ago

yeah. I don't think he even cares. I thought I needed a closure . but absolutely silence is clear : he was only playing with me.

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 7 mths ago

so you faced him ?.you went for answers ? I think that having a closure will bring me peace but maybe it will only hurt me more ...

Zoakoami
Zoakoami 7 mths ago

i remember wanting answers so bad i couldn’t breathe. i thought if i saw him and asked why i’d finally sleep. but it never fixed anything

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 7 mths ago

you went for answers?