I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do? we broke from 1 month and half
Last updated on:2025-08-13T21:51:35+05:30
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you were waiting for him to make the move, but he was waiting too. nothing happened, so the gap stayed.
Do you think I should make a move? I'm afraid he forgot about me, but when he saw me 4 days ago, he came closer to where I was.
sounds like you’re holding a lot. missing him is normal, it doesn’t mean you have to reach out right now.
i remember seeing mine walk past like nothing happened. made me want to scream. he wanted me to chase. i didn’t.
i hear you, and i completely understand. it sounds like you're hurting, and it's hard when you're in that place to see a way out. it's so normal to miss him and to feel confused after you saw him. it's like a part of you is hoping for a different ending, and it's so painful when that doesn't happen. you're not wrong for feeling that way. healing isn't a race, and it's definitely not a straight line. the best thing you can do right now is to focus on yourself, but the idea of "just focusing on yourself" can feel so empty when your heart is broken. it's not about an overnight fix or a simple solution. it's about being kind to yourself, one moment at a time. instead of thinking about how to stop missing him, maybe just try to make it through the next five minutes, or the next hour. maybe it's allowing yourself to have a cry, and then making a cup of tea. maybe it's writing down what you're feeling without judgment. the healing process is more like a gentle river than a race. you have to let it flow at its own pace. this is a wound that needs time and care, not force. you are not alone in this feeling, and you deserve to be gentle with yourself. we can all face this, and you also can. all of this will end soon, trust me. good luck!