Contacting him will most likely give you an answer that you don't want to hear. I've broke mine with my ex, ended up getting blocked on every app. If it was now me, I would just wait and observe even if it hurts so much, I know it does.
@DuskVibe48 everyone says do not contact. 🥺. if he isn't reaching is because he doesn't care.. I'm aware.. but then I think maybe he cares but he's emotionally unavailable. I don't know 😔
even though it hurts now to stay one day ur gonna thank urself for it ur gonna thank the version of u that’s happy because u were able to move on better and quicker because of not reaching out to him I believe in ur strength to do this it’s a battle every day but it’s a battle u should and will win
We’ve been separated for a month and a half because of me, and in the past few days, there have been two situations where he tried to get closer to me but in an indirect way. Do you think he will message me?
I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?
@DuskVibe48 if you feel like you want to then do it, but do it without any hopes up and not getting any response you like. but if he tried to close to you it could mean something… It’s your choice of what you wanna do atp…
I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?
@DuskVibe48 Dont contact him. it will hurt more when he doesnt reciprocate the energy. it will leave you hopeful that you guys will get back together. it's not worth the pain. you're setting back your healing. if he wants to come back, let him do that on his own. but don't reach out.
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day 5 is when the urge shows up the most. it’s the part where you start wondering if silence is permanent.
We have been separated for a month and a half.
i know that pull. i felt it too. sometimes the quiet after no contact feels louder than the breakup.
i remember thinking maybe if i reached out he’d see what he lost. all it did was remind me why i left.
Contacting him will most likely give you an answer that you don't want to hear. I've broke mine with my ex, ended up getting blocked on every app. If it was now me, I would just wait and observe even if it hurts so much, I know it does.
im feeling the same. I want to contact him to get a decent closure . 20 days blocked I don't know why...
what should we do
@DuskVibe48 everyone says do not contact. 🥺. if he isn't reaching is because he doesn't care.. I'm aware.. but then I think maybe he cares but he's emotionally unavailable. I don't know 😔
no dont contact him stay strong and put yourself first
even though it hurts now to stay one day ur gonna thank urself for it ur gonna thank the version of u that’s happy because u were able to move on better and quicker because of not reaching out to him I believe in ur strength to do this it’s a battle every day but it’s a battle u should and will win
thank you girl
BLOCK HIM GIRL!!! IF HE WANTED TOO HE WOULD BUT HE DIDN'T!!!! SO WHY YOU
We’ve been separated for a month and a half because of me, and in the past few days, there have been two situations where he tried to get closer to me but in an indirect way. Do you think he will message me?
NO
depends on the situation tbh.
I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?
@DuskVibe48 if you feel like you want to then do it, but do it without any hopes up and not getting any response you like. but if he tried to close to you it could mean something… It’s your choice of what you wanna do atp…
No. don't do it
I did something wrong that for him was worth it but for me not. I try not to contact him but I miss him and I really want to get back. He saw me a few days ago and tried to get close to where I was. I expected him to contact me but he didn’t. What should I do?
@DuskVibe48 Dont contact him. it will hurt more when he doesnt reciprocate the energy. it will leave you hopeful that you guys will get back together. it's not worth the pain. you're setting back your healing. if he wants to come back, let him do that on his own. but don't reach out.
@Marshmallow I'm afraid I'm the only one who has hope of coming back.
@DuskVibe48 focus on yourself my angel. you're going to hurt more trying to get his attention.