please help me! I need your advice. I'm feeling really anxious now. 20 days since he blocked me from Instagram (the only way we communicated besides his office where I met him). I feel that I need to look him in the eye and ask for an explanation...we were not dating, we filtred for 7 months and he started everything ..I wasnt looking for anything..im a very closed woman (48 and he is 42) I was very respectful and distant until 15 days ago that I went to his office and he kissed me and we made out in a very intense way..there was a real strong feeling from both parts..I was not expecting this at all . and I fall for him. (and he noticed it . 🥺) when he realized I was feeling something stronger he just blocked me without saying a word.. I'm aware this is not ok at all (we are both married but it's been 13 years since I haven't had any intimate relationship ...not even with my husband and he told me his marriage didn't work as well). this is why this is huge for me .. I opened up after 13 years ..I'm broken inside...I really need and explaination.. I felt played and used ..I feel awful. should I break the no contact and go there and ask why??? please give me an advice.. I feel guilty but I can't forget that moment..it made me feel alive after 13 years. I strongly feel he blocked me because he understood it was not a game for me ...what should I do?
Last updated on:2025-08-13T21:11:17+05:30
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he backed off the second it stopped being light for him. blocking was his way of avoiding a messy talk.
what do you mean by messy talk?
i get why you want answers. when i felt that alive again after years, it was hard to let go of the person who woke it up.
that's right. I know that getting feelings for someone is not ok as I'm still married.. but after all these years it hurts to feel used and rejected. I really need answers my self-esteem is on the floor 🥺
I know.. he doesn't care at all . it's just that I feel so anxious I just can't let it go of my mind. it's difficult..I feel used and I risked all for nothing 🥺
when a guy knows you’re catching feelings and just vanishes, it’s like a slap. mine didn’t even block me, just acted like i never happened.
that's so rude . I'm sad and confused
with the all due respect I feel like this man is not committed
what do you mean after you have stronger feelings for him he just brought to you giving you absolutely no closure even this is disrespectful in this way in his sense there is nothing could make you go back for someone that actually disrespect you in a way give you even no closure and he blocked he doesn't want to face he doesn't want to challenge if a man actually want to do that he will show you honey you don't need to put any effort and don't find for love don't search for love just for the sake of love not for you if you actually got out and hinge out the whole conversations and everything and attitude of him you will gather everything out of yourself and you would never ever want him again trust me
I even got a tattoo 'Never trust again ' but it hurts to face that true
I encourage you with all my heart not to break the no contact and to find love and support around and to believe but really believe that you deserve better
with all my respect and love, this is not about him , he showed you a need that you have unmet in your life. you are worth of love and intimate relationships. he is really not so ideal as you think now..your thirst for love make him seem so
yes i know I'm dreaming about the idea of being seen again not about him as a person.. he disrespected me with the block. he knew I was feeling something and immediately scaped. he just got what he wanted from me.. I feel so used 😞
I know he is not worth it.. I told him I was fragile and he played with me. once he obtained what he wanted he disappeared. but I'm sad and furious at the same time I want him to tell me the reason in my face.
I feel for you, but do not contact him, block him, and do not give any hope of contact because he is not worth it.
he was the one who blocked me first .what is the point to block him back ? I'm already blocked !!