same question that Im asking now. but I think he's not. I'm getting more convinced everyday. he didn't wanted anything from me except from what he had.
I was having exactly the same thought with you...what is he feeling ? how is he doing? it's so hard for me to change my focus from how HE is feeling to what do I want in a relationship. if ever there was a moment of reconnection, would I be ready to have clear mind, οpen heart and boundaries so that I can make sure that I did my part...?
@DuskVibe48 today it's my 2nd day of no contact. no he hasn't contacted me but I am thinking...when he contacts me, I want to be ready. being ready means be fair, be able to tell my side of the story and be heard and especially see his real reaction not fall for impulsive and untrustworthy gestures. I need to know what I want and know how to communicate it. if he is not there for this process, there is no relationship so there is no reason to keep hanging on
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you’re trying to measure your pain against his. it’s never going to feel the same for both
i used to wonder that too. sometimes it’s not about how they feel, it’s about how much you’re hurting right now
who I know
same question that Im asking now. but I think he's not. I'm getting more convinced everyday. he didn't wanted anything from me except from what he had.
nah. when i asked myself that, it just made me more pissed. like why am i even caring if he is
I was having exactly the same thought with you...what is he feeling ? how is he doing? it's so hard for me to change my focus from how HE is feeling to what do I want in a relationship. if ever there was a moment of reconnection, would I be ready to have clear mind, οpen heart and boundaries so that I can make sure that I did my part...?
what happen then?
he contact with you?
@DuskVibe48 today it's my 2nd day of no contact. no he hasn't contacted me but I am thinking...when he contacts me, I want to be ready. being ready means be fair, be able to tell my side of the story and be heard and especially see his real reaction not fall for impulsive and untrustworthy gestures. I need to know what I want and know how to communicate it. if he is not there for this process, there is no relationship so there is no reason to keep hanging on