20 days of being blocked after 1 time sex and 7 months of light filtring.. last thing done: a sweet message from me when it was obvious that I was into him.. What does that mean? that he was afraid of my feelings? that he wasn't interested? or that he was feeling something too and decided to cut everything before it became more intense? ( attraction was very strong and this was like a forbidden thing as we are not single) He vanished when he realized I was not playing or simply he didn't wanted to commit or show his own feelings?
Last updated on:2025-08-14T17:54:06+05:30
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you pulled away the moment it stopped feeling casual for him.
so he just wanted 'casual intimacy' ? sorry I'm not that kind of person if I open it's cause I have feelings...
sometimes people hide when they can’t handle what’s in front of them. it doesn’t make your feelings any less real.
yeah.. but I will never know if he disappeared because he didn't know how to handle my feelings or to avoid getting more into me. and that's what keeps me thinking about him...
i had someone vanish the second things got real. not cause it was deep for them. cause it was easier to run.
that's right.. he used me. once he got what he wanted he disappeared like a kid and he is 42.. my feelings are starting to change from sad into furious 🤬
Thanks. that's right. I need to open my eyes. he used me and that's all. he was really disrespectful and that what's hurts most . I was sincere, he knew it and he didn't cared.
I'm sorry but it sounds like he didnt want to commit. His behaviour after being intimate is very disrespectful (blocking you/cutting you off). You deserve way more. Don't waste your time on this guy. He sounds like a player/user.
you're right..I have been so stupid
@HOAX1977 you haven't been stupid. Sometimes people are just not who they make us belive they are. You're not stupid, he's at fault.