ok guys we are in no contact but we are on social media Whatsapp and even on streaks ... Instagram new update of showing what our friends like whenever i see he liked lovey dovey posts and my brain made me think may be he is with someone with whom he is sharing that ... i don't open his streaks regularly i don't really care i am using my Instagram less as well now . i wanted to be socially connected so in past I won't stalk eagerly his account.. i don't know what i am really trying to ask 👍🤦
Last updated on:2025-08-14T23:40:13+05:30
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you’re holding back from looking too much. maybe it’s not about caring less, just choosing not to feed it.
i remember trying to stay “casually connected” so it wouldn’t hurt. it still hurt sometimes. you’re doing your best keeping distance where you can.
i used to tell myself i didn’t care too. then i’d see some random thing online and my stomach would drop. it was like my brain wanted to torture me.
your trying to wonder if he is interested in your life and following you for that reason, or if he is showing you his life and connecting with you in that way. I think that’s what your trying to ask, and it’s understandable. my bf did that to me and I am not really a poster but he would look at everything I was posting on my stories. after posting a particular story that says “the one that doesn’t look for you is because they don’t need you” one night, he called me the next morning stating I shouldn’t be listening to stupidity like that because it’s not true. so that opened a line of communication. I guess if he misses you he will reach out but hear me out, even if he does or doesn’t does not equate to reconsiliation. when I posted that, yes I knew he would see it but also I posted it as a way to express the strength I wanted for myself and at that point I started accepting the
discard.focus on you baby girl! so I hope this helps a little.
thank you i really appreciate that ❤️