Day 21 since he blocked me. the picture is getting clearer for me. everything was fine and even exciting when it was just casual filtring..the moment I decided to tell him I was feeling something he took advantage immediately and got what every man wants from a woman ( I wasn't expecting this at all).. next day my messages were clear : I didn't pretend a thing but to understand what was that? if there was going to be a follow up.. (I'm not the kind of woman that you take and then pretend nothing happened!) so I texted him...he started giving excuses. I don't like texting (Instagram was the only way we communicated) I need time, I need to know you, I don't want to delude you or delude me .. I don't want to rush things...(excuse me ??? the day before you literally jumped over me!!!). my answer: no problem. just wanted to tell you I'm here and I care. the next day I saw him .. he was clearly ashamed for the intimacy of the day before but he kissed me again and he obviously wanted more ..but I left ... next day: after liking my stories .. unfollowed, blocked and disappeared. what was that ? afraid of my feelings? afraid of his feelings? afraid of the consequences? (we are both unhappily married 😞).
Last updated on:2025-08-17T23:54:03+05:30
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he wanted the excitement without the weight. once feelings entered, he panicked and pulled away.
that confusion is so painful. i remember staring at my phone trying to make sense of mixed signals too. your care was real, his choices weren’t.
i went through that same bullshit. all charm till you show real feelings, then suddenly he act like you’re asking for the world. it’s not about you, it’s their cowardice.
I was blocked after he didn't get what he wanted. He came back later and acted as if everything is okay, only to disappear later.
He pulled me into his web, only to ditch me. No goodbye or explanation for his disappearance.
this makes me sick.. I know he doesn't care about me or my feelings after the block but I don't want to accept it.
why do they dissapear like that ? it sucks
dont text him, just let him be,
I can't he blocked me. he is free of doing what he wants. I only wanted a decent closure I deserve it.. my only fault was to show him affection. why blocking?.