is it good having some contact after breakup to not get that high level pain and realising every day that he’s not mine and I should move on and from their behaviour getting fed up
Last updated on:2025-08-18T01:40:05+05:30
is it good having some contact after breakup to not get that high level pain and realising every day that he’s not mine and I should move on and from their behaviour getting fed up
Last updated on:2025-08-18T01:40:05+05:30
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you already see it in their behavior, how it makes you pull back a little more each time.
i remember wanting small contact too, just so it didn’t hurt so sharp. but each time it left me more drained than calm.
i tried that, kept talking after we broke up. it only dragged it out. every text just reminded me he chose someone else. felt like ripping the bandage off every day.
it’s just like I know I can’t stop my thoughts gonna leave me alone le me do anything it’s a lil relaxing making ur self realised that he’s not mine nd I have to let them go slowly by lacking in conversation day by day
If it's just some basic conversation that is cold it wouldn't do more than just hurt me. I'd stop talking, would add more fuel to a fire if you didn't