I just feel so weird and everyone is telling me that it's normal to feel like this but I can't wait for the day I don't feel like this anymore

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I just feel so weird and everyone is telling me that it's normal to feel like this but I can't wait for the day I don't feel like this anymore, it's not a nice feeling

Last updated on:2025-08-17T15:12:03+05:30

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dontknowme
dontknowme 7 mths ago

i had that moment once, when the photo showed up and i thought i’d fall apart but i didn’t. it felt strange but also lighter somehow.

lowbig
lowbig 7 mths ago

i remember when i saw mine post her like nothing happened. i felt nothing too, just empty. almost worse than crying.

HushGlow27
HushGlow27 7 mths ago

i completely understand I'm feeling that same thing right now. sending my best wishes to you i hope you can find happiness.

AlexHadADay
AlexHadADay 7 mths ago

It's not, it never ever will be a nice feeling. Be kind to yourself and embrace all the feelings that are coming to you.

FlowState53
FlowState53 7 mths ago

I found accepting its a state your in and that itll take time, especially if you have kids and work its really tough cause you have to function still, but bit by bit it gets better and one day i hear anyway haha youll wake up free

TheReason
TheReason 7 mths ago

It will happen. It's day 18 of no contact and 5 weeks since I saw him. And the impossible is already happening. I feel lighter day by day. Just keep showing up to yourself.

Alvanna20
Alvanna20 7 mths ago

how did you get to this point
cuz I’m drowning in pain

TheReason
TheReason 7 mths ago

@Alvanna20 well, it's definitely not easy or simple. Like today, I got up with a very heavy feeling and deep pain in my gut (almost kind of physical).

Then I told to myself - Don't worry. It is okay.
I'm with you. We will get through this together. It's just a phase. Let it pass through.

How you talk to yourself matters the most. Trust me, it's a game changer.

HOAX1977
HOAX1977 7 mths ago

no . it's not a nice feeling 😞