should i get back with him???? the reason we split was because of me, stuff that made me insecure about us, some words he said and the prior days of the break up he was a bit different, he said it was nothing and i told him i didn't wanted to have anything to do with him anymore, i was tired, now i've been thinking, its's been 16 days, he hasn't reached out, i deleted him everywhere, but he saw my stories a week ago and reposts stuff about missing someone, i know now that he was not perfect but i am not either, i sabotage my relationship too, should i try to fix things with him?
Last updated on:2025-08-18T01:59:57+05:30
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i remember blaming myself for everything too. i kept thinking if i’d been less insecure maybe we’d still be ok. it’s a painful place to sit in.
you're right i'm justbblaming myself deep down i know i'm not responsible of his actions
i begged for another chance once and he didn’t even blink. i thought deleting him everywhere would make him chase me. it didn’t.
you're right :(
no dear..I made the mistake of entertaining him after 6days of no Contact..he had told me he needed space..prior to that he was becoming distant n he only gets this way wenever his attention lies somewhere else..so after he reached out 6 days later, I asked him in anger never to call or text my line again , he’s response was he won’t. then I messaged him again, around 5pm asking to see him so we talk about our Stand in the relationship n the way forward of the baby (I’m pregnant ) he didn’t reply till now and didn’t show up either .so I took his silence as my loudest answer n blocked him once again..I’m back to day 1 of no contact again 💔
i'm sorry for you, he's s coward, you deserve better!
it sounds like you need the no contact to find the answer inside of you. maybe no contact can help to understand if it's really worth it or not and also if it is, then how? under what conditions?
yeah, i wanted to break it, but i've realized that he didn't take care of our relationship and me leaving doesn't make me the villain
No please.
thankss i also texted chatgpt and said no 😭