I broked up with my bf around 9 June but I was undenial.I was the one initiated the breakup since I saw guy have so many woman's he's changing there's no communication more and more It was painful leaving someone you love , engaged to get married with.I struggled a lot I was a mass a week would end without texting him but when I bump into him when I get home I'd write how I feel how he made me feel.The last time when I texted him was 27July .And I told him that ,this is a last time you hearing from me good luck with your life and since then I had never ever even if I see him on the way or bump into him breakdown.If he says Hi , I say hello pass nothing more.I was struggling to delete his contact as I'd add them again but I've finally deleted them in my phone.Im not turning back now.Im at peace I'm even gaining weight.Yesterday I met him with his friend , his friend said " you gaining weight now" I just get them and passed.Im no longer feeling the pain as before now Its my day 19 today.
Last updated on:2025-08-17T16:17:02+05:30
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i remember that shift when i didn’t cry after seeing him. i still said hi if he spoke, but it didn’t sting like before. it felt strange at first, like my heart forgot to react. i’m glad you’re feeling peace and even small stuff like eating better shows how far you’ve come.
i hated when people said i looked better after. like yeah thanks i was dying inside but at least my body decided to eat again. i remember deleting his number like 6 times, adding it back every night, feeling pathetic. once it finally stayed gone i felt free and pissed at the same time.
daaaaamn that's a mile stone. I hope I'll get there too. Really proud of you girl
proud of you for sticking to your peace. seeing him and just saying hi like nothing happened is huge. you’re reclaiming yourself.
*“You let go with a heavy heart, but now you walk lighter. That’s strength. Every step you take away from pain is a step toward your peace. You didn’t just survive — you’re healing, glowing, and rising. I’m proud of your journey.”