i think it's time to leave this community... after all, my situation is very different than yours. he is not my EX we were not dating, there was no WE.... he filtred for 7 months on Instagram and at his office where I used to go for work.. until I got a kind of crush on him. we've got intimate once and then he blocked me when he realized I didn't want to play..that I was real. I don't know what we were . we were nothing but it still hurts. I just want an explanation that's all. I don't care if he blocked me and I don't accept that silence is an answer.. I know it can be but I need to look him in the eye and tell me whatever he wants. I can't fake I speak truth. I'm going to face him.. that's all. then I won't turn around. Can I have your opinion about this for the last time? thank you all 🙏
Last updated on:2025-08-18T05:44:02+05:30
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what hurts most is not knowing what the connection actually was. blocked you without a word, left you holding all the weight. facing him is less about him and more about you needing that closure.
i hear you. i wanted that face to face too, just to hear something real. i never got it, but i understand why you want it. sometimes saying what you need to say matters more than what they answer.
i hate that crap. the flirting, the acting like it’s more, then vanishing when you don’t play by their script. happened to me too, i kept telling myself “we weren’t even a thing” but it still burned. it’s like they get to write the story and leave you stuck in the middle of it.
its not about an Ex.. its about healing... we are all trying to heal.. we all have different stories ... so u do belong here ...as far an answer ... here is the thing .. if facing gim gives you peace do it... but reading what you have to say about him... seems like he isnt worth it ... sorry if i sound crude. tc hope u heal soonest
id suggest you don’t go talking to him anymore..just let him be and try to move on